Kyle McGee: How I Knew She Was The One

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IMG_20151009_112553Seven months I have been with Sabrina Biggus. Honestly, in these 7 months I have learned so much from her, and vise versa. Sabrina and I met on Plenty of Fish – yeah online dating…never saw that coming.

I remember talking to her and her telling me about her past.  Honestly, to this day I never understood how this beautiful woman was single. When we first officially Face-Timed, we talked about education, family, history, likes, dislikes…everything. I remember her telling me how she was on the Steve Harvey show. I thought… “she was on TV too?! Why has nobody married this woman?

To be honest, I thought she was out of my league. She is beautiful, smart, has a sense of humor, is a TV star, and she has goals and ambitions. Funny…still to this day, I never saw myself with a woman as special as her. That’s until our first date at Cooper’s Hawk. That’s when I looked into her eyes and saw a future.

Honestly, I never would have begun working at Cooper’s Hawk if it wasn’t for her. Our first date was so memorable that I would replay that day in my mind over and over.  Dinner was delicious and Sabrina was excited to share her love for wine with me.  She was beautiful.  All night, I couldn’t believe that this beautiful woman was single. To this day my love tells me, “That their loss, your gain.” I am the luckiest guy in the world.  Over the months, we grew closer and closer together.

Every time we grew closer, the more I found myself scared of losing her

Its because she really is the woman that I want and need, and she will always know this because I will not stop expressing that fact.  No other woman will understand me like she does. I’ve had my fair share of relationships, but she is the only woman to bring that love out of me.  I wouldn’t want to live life without her. I can handle my own, but in life we need somebody that makes us feel complete.

IMG_20150417_223221I remember going to church with Sabrina and her mom.  Afterwards she told me that God spoke to her and told her I was the one. Why it took all this time, I don’t know…but with everything that we want to do in life, it is perfect timing.  Both of us are 25 now, and we are also going to graduate at the same time.  From graduating, to talking about moving into a house, to starting a family – just starting a life together. I’m happy that we found each other.

My birthday was never really something special; just another year old.  But this year it was different.  Sabrina made my birthday memorable – something no ex could have done. The engraved flask, the Sugar Factory, effort she put into getting my friends to come along, and not to mention the hotel room. With all of that to be said, I never met a woman who cared that much about me. I have been through my fair share of relationships, but none of them can even come close to me and Sabrina.

Her birthday was just this past weekend and let’s just say that she will always remember that day. I did what every guy should do for the one he loves:

Show her how much you love her and don’t hold back

I decorated the hotel room, bought her a charm bracelet, dinner with a view and with all of that to be said, this was a milestone for my love. As we venture into the future, we have so much to plan and so much to accomplish together. The love I have for her will never die – it will only grow. With all of this, I only have one thing to say: I love you Sabrina, I will always love you.

“I wanna hold you. I want you inside of these of these arms. I’m dying to taste you, I can’t deny. Can’t get out of my mind. Please let me hold you. Cause I need your lovin’ tonight”  – Usher, Bedtime

Guest Blogger: Kyle McGee

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Josie is an aspiring writer living in Chicago Illinois, inspiring self-love through her own tragicomic life journey. Follow Josie as she details her collection of dating fails, life lessons and heart-to-heart confessions with her nosy readers.

6 Comments on Kyle McGee: How I Knew She Was The One

  1. Great to this kind of love. I am interested from a guys perspective on how did you get to a point to be able to love without holdin back. How did you get to the point to open up and love again.

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    • Having bad relationships made me stronger. I admit at first I didn’t want a relationship. That is not who I am, I love to love. You should never close off your emotions because of the past. Instead look forward, never be afraid to show who you really are.

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  2. Daaaaaang! Sabrina + Kyle got it going ooooooonn!!

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